Gareth wrote:Horse wrote:It struck me later that it could have been a deliberate action, to take some attention / concentration, so that I couldn't focus on 'putting on a show'.
It seems to me this would have been done to help you feel at ease. but then it's up to you how long it continues and how involved the conversation becomes.
That was my initial thought. But a chance comment someone made (in a different context) made me wonder.